IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Patricia A.
Weidner

Mar 14, 1935 — Jun 4, 2022

Obituary

On June 4, 2022, Patricia Weidner of Newark DE, formerly of Lewes DE, Bradenton FL,

Garden City NY and East Hampton NY passed away at the age of 87.
Pat was born on March 14, 1935 in Flushing NY to Dr Donald and Martha O'Brien. She
was an elementary and preschool teacher who held many positions throughout Long Island. Just
before marrying, Pat had the opportunity to teach for a year in Germany for the Air Force and
traveled throughout Europe and the Middle East. Pat was a devoted educator who taught herself
how to play the guitar and loved sharing music with her students. On July 4th,1964 she married
Lester E Weidner Jr. They enjoyed 46 years together and raised 2 daughters.
Pat was an avid tennis player and continued to play regularly into her 80's. Her Catholic
faith was very important to Pat, who attended Mass daily and was a Eucharistic Minister. She
enjoyed helping others and was involved in many volunteer positions such as a CASA (Court
Appointed State Advocate) and at a donation facility for abused women. While Pat has lived in
many places, she always spoke very fondly of her 20+ years in East Hampton. She and Les loved
hosting friends and family at the house and watching their grandchildren have fun in the pool or
at the beach.
Pat is survived by her daughter, Mary Marzulli and her husband, Paul, daughter, Christine
O'Dowd and husband, Kevin, and grandchildren Katie, Thomas, Lauren, Kyra and Ryan.
Patricia is also survived by her sister, Catherine O'Connor (Kevin) and brother, Dr Peter
O'Brien(Laurie) as well as many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband
Lester E Weidner Jr and her brother Donald O'Brien.
All services will be held on June 16th in Sag Harbor NY, beginning with visitation at the
Yardley and Pino Funeral Home at 91 Hampton St. from 11:30- 1:30 followed by a funeral Mass
at 2:00 St Andrew's Church at 122 Division St with burial immediately following at St. Andrews
Cemetery on Brick Kiln Rd.
Donations in Pat's honor can be sent to St Jude's Hospital for Children or The
Alzheimer's Association

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On June 4, 2022, Patricia Weidner of Newark DE, formerly of Lewes DE, Bradenton FL,
Garden City NY and East Hampton NY passed away at the age of 87.
Pat was born on March 14, 1935 in Flushing NY to Dr Donald and Martha O'Brien. She
was an elementary and preschool teacher who held many positions throughout Long Island. Just
before marrying, Pat had the opportunity to teach for a year in Germany for the Air Force and
traveled throughout Europe and the Middle East. Pat was a devoted educator who taught herself
how to play the guitar and loved sharing music with her students. On July 4th,1964 she married
Lester E Weidner Jr. They enjoyed 46 years together and raised 2 daughters.
Pat was an avid tennis player and continued to play regularly into her 80's. Her Catholic
faith was very important to Pat, who attended Mass daily and was a Eucharistic Minister. She
enjoyed helping others and was involved in many volunteer positions such as a CASA (Court
Appointed State Advocate) and at a donation facility for abused women. While Pat has lived in
many places, she always spoke very fondly of her 20+ years in East Hampton. She and Les loved
hosting friends and family at the house and watching their grandchildren have fun in the pool or
at the beach.
Pat is survived by her daughter, Mary Marzulli and her husband, Paul, daughter, Christine
O'Dowd and husband, Kevin, and grandchildren Katie, Thomas, Lauren, Kyra and Ryan.
Patricia is also survived by her sister, Catherine O'Connor (Kevin) and brother, Dr Peter
O'Brien(Laurie) as well as many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband
Lester E Weidner Jr and her brother Donald O'Brien.
All services will be held on June 16th in Sag Harbor NY, beginning with visitation at the
Yardley and Pino Funeral Home at 91 Hampton St. from 11:30- 1:30 followed by a funeral Mass
at 2:00 St Andrew's Church at 122 Division St with burial immediately following at St. Andrews
Cemetery on Brick Kiln Rd.
Donations in Pat's honor can be sent to St Jude's Hospital for Children or The
Alzheimer's Association
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June
16

Thursday

91 Hampton St., Sag Harbor, N.Y. 11963

91 Hampton St., Sag Harbor, NY 11963

11:30 am - 1:30 pm

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June
16

Thursday

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